In the fall of 2024, the Benediction Counseling team read the book Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen and participated in formal trainings by experts in each content area. Throughout Difference Matters, Allen encourages readers to recognize the power of understanding and respecting diversity. Each chapter invites reflection on how we can challenge dominant narratives, broaden our perspectives, and cultivate empathy. The book’s hopeful message is that, through awareness and active engagement, we can create inclusive spaces where everyone feels valued and supported. This 9-part blog series is part book review and part integration to understand the implications of each social identity on the field of mental health. Please join us on this journey to become culturally informed providers!

Book Summary: Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen.
This chapter explores ability and disability as identities, focusing on how ableism impacts individuals with physical and mental differences. Ability matters because it shapes access to public spaces, opportunities, and social inclusion. The dominant narrative often marginalizes people with disabilities, treating them as “others” or seeing disability solely as something to “overcome.” The corrective experience includes adopting the social model of disability, which sees disability as a result of societal barriers rather than individual limitations. By advocating for accessibility and inclusion, we foster a world where everyone can participate fully.

Why Disability Matters to Mental Health
Living with a disability often presents unique mental health challenges, especially in a society that may not fully accommodate or understand those differences. People with disabilities may face social exclusion, discrimination, and internalized ableism, which can lead to feelings of isolation, anxiety, and depression. Moreover, constant efforts to navigate inaccessible environments can contribute to chronic stress. The corrective experience of advocating for inclusive spaces and respecting diverse abilities fosters a sense of whole-person respect and belonging that can improve mental health. When society values accessibility and support, people with disabilities can experience enhanced self-worth, reducing mental health burdens.

In the fall of 2024, the Benediction Counseling team read the book Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen and participated in formal trainings by experts in each content area. Throughout Difference Matters, Allen encourages readers to recognize the power of understanding and respecting diversity. Each chapter invites reflection on how we can challenge dominant narratives, broaden our perspectives, and cultivate empathy. The book’s hopeful message is that, through awareness and active engagement, we can create inclusive spaces where everyone feels valued and supported. This 9-part blog series is part book review and part integration to understand the implications of each social identity on the field of mental health. Please join us on this journey to become culturally informed providers!

Book Summary: Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen.
Allen addresses social class and economic inequality, discussing how socioeconomic status profoundly impacts people’s lives. Social class matters because it determines access to resources like education, healthcare, and housing, which shape opportunities and overall well-being. Dominant narratives often individualize economic hardship, suggesting that poverty is a personal failing rather than a systemic issue. The corrective experience involves understanding the structural factors behind economic inequality and supporting policies and practices that promote social mobility and economic justice. Recognizing the impact of social class enables us to advocate for a fairer society.

Why Economic Inequality Matters to Mental Health
Economic hardship and social class disparities can create chronic stress that has a very real impact on mental health. Limited access to quality healthcare, high stress levels from financial instability, and social exclusion can lead to anxiety, depression, and a sense of hopelessness. The shame associated with poverty or lower social class can also contribute to mental health challenges, as people may internalize societal stigma. Embracing a corrective experience where economic challenges are seen as structural rather than individual failures helps reduce shame and fosters resilience. Access to supportive resources and a focus on personal strengths can empower individuals and improve mental health, promoting a sense of agency and hope.

In the fall of 2024, the Benediction Counseling team read the book Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen and participated in formal trainings by experts in each content area. Throughout Difference Matters, Allen encourages readers to recognize the power of understanding and respecting diversity. Each chapter invites reflection on how we can challenge dominant narratives, broaden our perspectives, and cultivate empathy. The book’s hopeful message is that, through awareness and active engagement, we can create inclusive spaces where everyone feels valued and supported. This 9-part blog series is part book review and part integration to understand the implications of each social identity on the field of mental health. Please join us on this journey to become culturally informed providers!

Book Summary: Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen.
This chapter examines age as a social identity and addresses ageism’s effects on both younger and older populations. Age matters because it influences how individuals are perceived, their opportunities, and their societal roles. The dominant narrative often casts youth as inexperienced and older adults as outdated, fostering stereotypes that limit people at both ends of the age spectrum. The corrective experience involves recognizing the strengths each age group brings and valuing intergenerational perspectives. By challenging age-related biases, we can create communities that respect people at every stage of life.

Why Age and Ageism Matter to Mental Health
Ageism can take a serious toll on mental health, leading to increased feelings of worthlessness and social isolation, particularly among older adults. Younger individuals may also struggle with self-esteem and anxiety due to a lack of validation or respect. These experiences often lead to a diminished sense of purpose and well-being. The corrective experience of fostering intergenerational respect and understanding helps validate individuals at every age, enhancing their sense of worth and reducing the mental health burdens of age-based stereotypes. When people feel valued regardless of age, they are more likely to thrive psychologically.

In the fall of 2024, the Benediction Counseling team read the book Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen and participated in formal trainings by experts in each content area. Throughout Difference Matters, Allen encourages readers to recognize the power of understanding and respecting diversity. Each chapter invites reflection on how we can challenge dominant narratives, broaden our perspectives, and cultivate empathy. The book’s hopeful message is that, through awareness and active engagement, we can create inclusive spaces where everyone feels valued and supported. This 9-part blog series is part book review and part integration to understand the implications of each social identity on the field of mental health. Please join us on this journey to become culturally informed providers!

Book Summary: Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen.
Allen delves into sexual orientation, a deeply personal aspect of identity often subject to misunderstanding and prejudice. Sexual orientation matters because it shapes relationships, self-expression, and belonging. Dominant narratives may stigmatize or exclude LGBTQ+ identities, creating a culture of marginalization and misunderstanding. The corrective experience involves educating ourselves on the diversity of sexual orientations and supporting equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals. By fostering understanding and inclusion, we contribute to a society where everyone can live openly and without fear of discrimination.

Why Sexual Orientation Matters to Mental Health
Sexual orientation is closely linked to mental health, especially for individuals who identify as LGBTQ+. Homophobia, discrimination, and social stigma can contribute to mental health issues, including higher rates of anxiety, depression, and trauma. These challenges are often compounded by societal rejection or internalized shame. Providing safe spaces and supportive communities where diverse sexual orientations are celebrated can mitigate these mental health risks. When individuals feel seen, understood and respected, they are more likely to experience self-acceptance, resilience, and improved mental health outcomes.

In the fall of 2024, the Benediction Counseling team read the book Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen and participated in formal trainings by experts in each content area. Throughout Difference Matters, Allen encourages readers to recognize the power of understanding and respecting diversity. Each chapter invites reflection on how we can challenge dominant narratives, broaden our perspectives, and cultivate empathy. The book’s hopeful message is that, through awareness and active engagement, we can create inclusive spaces where everyone feels valued and supported. This 9-part blog series is part book review and part integration to understand the implications of each social identity on the field of mental health. Please join us on this journey to become culturally informed providers!

Book Summary: Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen.
In this chapter, Allen explores gender as a complex, socially constructed identity with far-reaching implications. Gender matters because it shapes how individuals are treated, what is expected of them, and the opportunities available to them. The dominant narrative often upholds traditional gender roles and binary expectations, limiting individuals and perpetuating inequality. The corrective experience encourages recognizing gender as a spectrum, respecting diverse gender identities, and challenging restrictive gender norms. By embracing gender diversity, we create a society that honors each person’s identity and supports their freedom to live authentically.

Why Gender Identity Matters to Mental Health
Narrowly-defined gender expectations can lead to mental health challenges, as restrictive roles and societal pressures impact self-image and self-acceptance. For those whose gender identity differs from societal norms—such as nonbinary or transgender individuals—misunderstanding and discrimination can lead to increased risks of anxiety, depression, and trauma-related symptoms. The rate of suicidal ideation and suicide attempts are much higher among transgender individuals, indicating a mental health crisis related to systemic oppression and violence toward this population. Traditional gender roles may also increase stress in people of all genders, as they navigate societal expectations that don’t align with their authentic selves. Approaching gender identity with respect for gender diversity and individual empowerment can provide a powerful foundation for positive mental health and self-acceptance.

​In the fall of 2024, the Benediction Counseling team read the book Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen and participated in formal trainings by experts in each content area. Throughout Difference Matters, Allen encourages readers to recognize the power of understanding and respecting diversity. Each chapter invites reflection on how we can challenge dominant narratives, broaden our perspectives, and cultivate empathy. The book’s hopeful message is that, through awareness and active engagement, we can create inclusive spaces where everyone feels valued and supported. This 9-part blog series is part book review and part integration to understand the implications of each social identity on the field of mental health. Please join us on this journey to become culturally informed providers!

Book Summary: Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen.
Race and ethnicity are examined as core aspects of identity that have a profound impact on people’s experiences and opportunities. Allen emphasizes that race matters because it affects access to resources, societal status, and personal well-being. The dominant narrative often downplays racial disparities or stereotypes certain racial groups, perpetuating systemic racism. The corrective experience involves unlearning stereotypes and understanding the historical and present-day impacts of race on people’s lives. By educating ourselves and engaging in meaningful dialogue about race, we can work toward a society that values and respects racial diversity.

Why Race and Ethnicity Matter to Mental Health
Race and ethnicity profoundly influence mental health outcomes, often due to systemic racism and chronic stress. People from marginalized racial or ethnic backgrounds frequently face discrimination, which can lead to heightened stress levels, trauma, anxiety, and depressive symptoms. These communities also encounter barriers to culturally sensitive mental health care, which can delay or complicate treatment. Recognizing and addressing these realities can validate individuals’ experiences and help reduce feelings of isolation and internalized shame. Acknowledging the mental health impact of racial inequities is essential for building resilience and advocating for accessible, culturally informed support.

In the fall of 2024, the Benediction Counseling team read the book Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen and participated in formal trainings by experts in each content area. Throughout Difference Matters, Allen encourages readers to recognize the power of understanding and respecting diversity. Each chapter invites reflection on how we can challenge dominant narratives, broaden our perspectives, and cultivate empathy. The book’s hopeful message is that, through awareness and active engagement, we can create inclusive spaces where everyone feels valued and supported. This 9-part blog series is part book review and part integration to understand the implications of each social identity on the field of mental health. Please join us on this journey to become culturally informed providers!
Book Summary: Difference Matters: Communicating Social Identity by Brenda Allen.
​Allen opens with key definitions and frameworks around identity, difference, and power because understanding these concepts is essential for recognizing how individual experiences are shaped by social structures. The dominant social group in any category defines the narrative about that identity. The risk inherent in allowing the dominant group to define what is “best” and “healthy” for all groups is that it is not informed by the impact of all social identities on people’s lives. The corrective experience involves acknowledging one’s own identity, recognizing privilege, becoming aware of marginalization and becoming open to learning about diverse lived experiences. By embracing these principles, readers can foster greater empathy and build inclusive communities.
Why Identity, Difference and Power Matters to Mental Health
Understanding identity, difference, and power has a substantial impact on mental health. Defining one’s social identities can be liberating, as it provides context for our personal experiences. Understanding one’s proximity to the dominant narrative is important. For those in privileged groups, they are often supported by the dominant narrative and can bring healing to their communities when they learn from those with differing lived experiences and combat oppressive systems. For those in marginalized groups, the dominant narrative creates a power imbalance that can cause feelings of isolation, invalidation, and internalized shame, affecting self-worth and self-esteem. Creating awareness of oppressive systems can allow more accurate self-reflection, personal choice and self-compassion.

Mindfulness techniques can be powerful tools for managing depression, helping people reconnect with the present moment and reduce negative thought patterns. Depression often brings persistent, intrusive thoughts—feelings of worthlessness, guilt, or hopelessness—that can trap a person in a cycle of rumination. Mindfulness encourages a non-judgmental awareness of thoughts and emotions, allowing people to observe these experiences without getting caught up in them. By grounding ourselves in the present moment, we can create some mental distance from depressive thoughts, which often dwell on the past or predict a bleak future. In this way, mindfulness gently breaks the cycle and introduces moments of peace and clarity.

One of the foundational mindfulness techniques, mindful breathing, can be particularly helpful for depression. This practice involves focusing on each breath—feeling the air as it flows in and out—and gently bringing the mind back to the breath whenever it starts to wander. This simple technique can help calm the nervous system, reducing stress hormones and fostering a sense of inner stillness. Body scan exercises, where you bring your attention to each part of your body in turn, can also be effective. They help people reconnect with their bodies and shift focus away from negative thoughts. These mindfulness practices cultivate a deeper awareness and acceptance of emotions, which can ease the intensity of depressive symptoms over time.

Research shows that regular mindfulness practice can lead to lasting changes in the brain, improving resilience and emotional regulation. It’s important to remember that mindfulness is a skill that grows with practice; it may feel challenging at first, especially during depressive episodes, but even a few minutes each day can make a difference. Many people find that mindfulness, when combined with other depression treatments like talk therapy and medication, can significantly improve their well-being. With patience and compassion for yourself, mindfulness can be a pathway toward healing, helping you find more moments of calm and a renewed sense of connection with yourself and the world.

Depression and the freeze response to trauma can share a variety of overlapping symptoms, which can sometimes make it challenging to distinguish between the two. Both conditions can lead to low energy, a sense of emotional numbness, and difficulty with motivation. However, while depression often develops gradually, stemming from a complex mix of genetic, environmental, and emotional factors, the freeze response is a specific reaction to trauma. In this state, the nervous system essentially “shuts down” as a protective mechanism, making a person feel frozen, helpless, or disconnected. Understanding these differences can help people find more tailored approaches to healing, as both require specific kinds of care and support.

The freeze response is part of the body’s natural “fight, flight, or freeze” reaction, which is governed by the autonomic nervous system. When faced with trauma, the sympathetic nervous system (responsible for the body’s fight-or-flight response) may initially prepare the body to react, but if the threat feels too overwhelming, the parasympathetic nervous system can kick in, causing the body to freeze. This response helps a person feel “safe” by essentially numbing sensations, slowing reactions, and suppressing emotions. In trauma survivors, this freeze state can sometimes persist long after the initial trauma, creating symptoms that overlap with depression, such as low energy, numbness, and emotional detachment.

While it’s challenging, recovery from both depression and trauma is possible with the right support. Trauma-focused therapies, such as EMDR, IFS or somatic therapies, can help individuals release their bodies from the freeze response and reconnect with themselves. At the same time, treatments for depression, such as dialectic behavioral therapy (DBT) or mindfulness, can help rebuild a sense of purpose and energy. Working with a mental health professional can clarify the underlying causes of these symptoms and open pathways to healing. Remember, feeling “stuck” is not a permanent state—healing is achievable, and with compassion and the right tools, it’s possible to reclaim a life of resilience and hope.

When living with depression, daily tasks that once felt manageable can become daunting and overwhelming. People with depression often describe feeling weighed down, like there’s an invisible barrier making even the simplest activities—such as getting out of bed, taking a shower, or preparing a meal—feel incredibly difficult. This happens because depression affects both energy levels and motivation. It’s not just “feeling sad”; it’s a whole-body experience that can make even routine activities seem monumental. Understanding that these struggles are a genuine part of the illness, not a character flaw, can be the first step toward self-compassion and healing.

Diagnosing depression is more than recognizing these daily challenges. A mental health professional will assess a range of symptoms, including prolonged low mood, a lack of interest in activities, sleep disturbances, fatigue, and even changes in appetite. It’s common for those with depression to feel a sense of shame or frustration about how hard simple tasks have become, but seeking depression treatment is a courageous step forward. There are a variety of treatments available for those who are suffering from depression. For many, this may include therapy, medication, or lifestyle interventions like exercise and mindfulness. Research shows that a combination of treatments is often most effective, and treatment plans can be tailored to meet each person’s unique needs.

The journey through depression can feel long, but it’s essential to remember that with the right support and treatment, things can improve. Small steps—like reaching out to a friend, following a treatment plan, or even setting one small goal a day—can lead to larger changes over time. Depression may make daily tasks feel insurmountable, but by acknowledging the reality of the struggle, seeking support, and allowing yourself to heal, you can begin to regain your strength and hope. Recovery is possible, and with patience, compassion, and persistence, life can become lighter, one step at a time.